What is the City of Brides?
This is a moniker for Nikolaev City (also known as Mykolaiv)—a major shipbuilding hub in southern Ukraine.
During the post-Soviet era, there was economic instability and a gender imbalance. This resulted in a “higher-than-average” number of Ukrainian women, many of whom were struggling to find a partner. It didn’t help that alcoholism and unemployment were prevalent among their fellow countrymen.
As a solution, they sought foreign partners overseas. Many international dating agencies then started to market their services by connecting single foreign men with women in Ukraine. Cities like Nikolaev were largely presented as places where men could find their future brides or wives.
Understandably, it seemed like an enticing opportunity for singles to explore cross-cultural relationships.
This coincided with the time when modern “mail-order brides” became a popular phenomenon, and Ukraine happened to be one of the highly sought-after countries for men seeking life partners.
Between the 1990s and 2000s, as a result of the political and economic challenges in the region, it became apparent to many Ukrainian women that marrying a foreign spouse could be a path to a better life.
Today, many of these women seek international dating communities that are centered on mutual respect and authenticity.
For 30 years, we at the City of Brides have continued to facilitate such a community where both men and women can connect and build genuine relationships. Through various speed dating events and social activities, we aim to foster a safe and relaxing environment for everyone involved.
With the help of guided tours, which we call singles vacations, and the hands-on approach of an international matchmaker, we’ve created an avenue for these two to mingle and get to know each other.
In this video, Mike from South Carolina talks about his experience traveling to Ukraine to meet the women through our service.
It’s not just about finding a Ukraine bride. Our service is meant to be a safe and trustworthy community where you can meet singles who share the same values and intentions for a relationship.
We’ve made our site accessible to both men and women who wish to communicate before deciding to meet in person. Here’s what you need to do first.
As with any adult dating service, you need to present yourself in a way that will attract the right partner. Include what you would like them to know about you.
Keep it brief and select three to five photos that highlight your best features.
If you’re set on connecting with like-minded individuals in the famous City of Brides, you can start by exploring our members’ profiles.
Each profile will have a brief summary of their personality traits and what they’re looking for in a partner. This can give you an idea on how to connect with them before you send that first message.
You can send letters or opt for a phone or video call if you wish to chat with the member/s you’re interested in. While this is a good start, we always encourage our members to meet in person through our tours.
With the help of our matchmakers and staff, you’ll have less trouble interacting with one another and building rapport.
Under the Main Menu to the left, scroll down to Media & Client Testimonials and browse through our video gallery where you will find several of our success stories, shared experiences of members who joined our tours, and interviews with site members.
The goal of every connection or relationship formed online is to transition offline.
Not many international dating sites go beyond the traditional and modern approaches to helping you find and create the kind of romantic relationship you want. This is what our community thrives on—by understanding the needs of those who use our service, it becomes a smooth and convenient process for them to pursue love and romance at their own pace.
In the next video, Brian talks about taking that next step in finding his future wife. He has been corresponding with one of our site members for nearly two years, until he finally decided to take the trip to Ukraine and join our tours.
The City of Brides continues to be a dream destination for many, but only a few take the opportunity to meet potential partners here. As we’ve mentioned, we encourage you to explore our site to learn more about our service.
Who knows? Someday, when you’re finally ready to meet the woman of your dreams, she’ll be right here waiting. For now, like what Brian did, you can start working on your game plan so that once it becomes a reality, you can focus on taking that next step.
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A. It's a nickname for Nikolaev City, Ukraine, which became known for its high number of women seeking foreign husbands due to post-Soviet economic issues and gender imbalance.
Economic instability, high unemployment, and alcoholism among local men led many Ukrainian women to seek a better life by marrying a foreign spouse.
The company facilitates connections through speed dating events, social activities, singles vacations, and guided tours, with the help of an international matchmaker.
Yes, City of Brides can arrange dates with Ukrainian women who have relocated to other countries, such as Germany or Poland, due to the war.
You can visit the company’s website at www.cityofbrides.com to learn more about their services and begin your journey.
A. To get started, register and create your profile with a brief summary and a few photos.
Each profile provides a brief summary of the woman's personality traits and what she is looking for in a partner. This information can help you decide how to best connect with her.
The site offers several communication options, including sending letters and having phone or video calls. For a more personal connection, you can meet in person through the tours.
Yes, our service offers tours to help members meet in person. Our matchmakers and staff are available to assist you with interacting and building rapport during these tours.
You can find success stories, shared experiences, and interviews with site members in our video gallery. Navigate to the "Media & Client Testimonials" section under the Main Menu
A. City of Brides offers three main tour options: Group Tours, Individual Club Tours, and One-on-One Introductions.
Group Tours are a main highlight where the entire community gathers to connect and interact. They are available for seven, ten, or fourteen days in Nikolaev or neighboring cities and include scheduled activities and programs.
Individual Club Tours are for those who prefer one-on-one, in-office assistance. You will meet with a bilingual matchmaker and have two one-on-one introductions per day. These tours can also be seven, ten, or fourteen days long.
One-on-One Introductions are designed for convenience, especially if you are already in the city. They allow for assisted meet-ups at a cafe or restaurant. This option is suitable if you prefer to meet only a few site members or have a strong connection with someone you've been communicating with online.
A. The goal is to help members transition from online connections to real-life relationships.
It is a dream destination and location for the dating tours.
Brian corresponded with a member for two years, traveled to Ukraine to meet her, and described his experience with the tours as "life-changing."
The service provides support through organized social events and the assistance of matchmakers.
They are described as a "great life experience" that allows for meeting many women and forming closer connections
Explore the site to learn more and begin communicating with potential partners on the site.
According to Brian, he did not feel a war was going on and was impressed by the positive outlook of the women he met
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